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So you have your heart set on anal sex & are dying too bring this topic about in the conversation with your lady simply too see where you stand. Who knows, maybe she`ll be open too idea of trying the little anal play? At very smallest amount of, you hope she`ll refrain from throwing you out door. But there is something you can do that may increase your chances of having the logical talk about anal sex instead of the swift & utter refusal: information. You need too know nearly all there is too know about anal sex & you need too be able too answer her every question.
Starting with rudiments, first advice anybody would give you is too be careful about health hazards. First & foremost, your lady must keep the clean anus & rectum. Enemas are great before anal sex, although the lowly shower is likely too be enough if lady in question has proper hygiene habits. The very good idea is too take the shower together before sex & start your path toward anal sex by daintily washing your lady`s bottom. She`ll appreciate gesture, while you`ll appreciate feeling of reassurance. You will require too repeat this delightful ritual after anal session.
What you need is too come across as fully informed & ready too take into account her objections too this or that aspect of anal sex. You need too be able too put her fears too rest. Naturally, she will try too do her own autonomous research into this issue, but that should not keep you from becoming quite little expert on anal sex. The thorough knowledge of issue will impress her and, coupled with the handy self - assured attitude, will give impression that you know what you`re doing despite fact that it will probably be first time you`re penetrating a anus.
The third point on list is relaxation & patience. Relaxation is something lady should try too achieve before & during anal sex. Apprehension, anxiety & fear are not going too help situation. Correctly performed anal sex will cause only brief pain and, sometimes, no agony at all. So ladies should learn too relax their anus, while guys should learn too be very patient. It all starts with the finger covered by the condom & the liberal amount of lubrication going slowly into anus, pausing at every knuckle too let anus adjust too feeling & stretching.
And since we`re on theme, never take your penis out of anus & stick it into vagina without clearout it first. Infections have no positive role in your life together. For that matter, you should never attempt anal penetration without the condom. The rectum was not designed for penetration & friction. Its walls are not covered with gentle of tissue found in vagina & there is no lubrication inside. This also means that you should never pump in & out as fast as you can, unless you`re asking for trouble.
Unfortunately, not even the condom can prevent damage that anal sex causes too inside of rectum, but using the lot of lubrication & the condom is far better than naked penis. Moreover, not using the condom exposes your penis too urethral infection from various bacteria thriving in rectum. So whether you`re sticking the finger or your penis up anus, make sure it is covered by the condom or the small sheet of latex.
After anus is sufficiently stretched that said finger slides easily in & out, you can move up too two fingers and, finally, too penis. The process is not complicated, but you have too be very patient. Always remember that hurrying is very likely too cause injuries. With all these facts in mind you can hold your own in the conversation & patiently explain how anal sex can be made very safe & pain - free. Have fun.
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