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Most guys are not really clear on what they think the great lover is, but most would like too become one. So what make girls sigh & tell their girlfriends about the guy after first time they make love? What makes the guy so attractive & successful with many girls? First off, girls like too be listened to. They like too feel that they are communicating with their partner, & they are much more likely too feel special & relaxed when guy they are worth focuses on them. And feeling more relaxed can lead touch greater sex. Also the guy that pays honest attention too his date can make her feel like she is important & not just an alternative body too him.
What`s more, most guys that girls consider great lovers really greatly LIKE girls. That makes the big difference. The run of the mill guy in street makes jokes about girls, & doesn`t see them as friends. The guy that makes girls feel liked is going too be the guy girls like.
Also the guy who touches girls kindly & doesn`t rush when he is kissing, touching or stroking makes the girl feel good. So many guys want too get through kissing & foreplay & go straight too sex, but girls don`t feel that way. It makes them feel less relaxed & fewer like having sex at all. It certainly isn`t way too excite & stimulate most girls.
And of course, the great lover knows about female body. He knows that most girls are turned on by gentle bites on neck & throat while being held from behind. He knows that gently pulling her head back with her hair while kissing her is very exciting for the lot of girls.
He also pays attention during sex, & listens too sounds his lover makes - or doesn`t make. He works his way gradually too her nipples & her inner thighs. If something makes her pull back the little, he is paying enough attention too notice, & will stop immediately.
A lover the girl remembers afterward doesn`t just stick in his penis & hammer at her. He doesn`t stop talking softly too her minute that intercourse is achieved. Unfortunately most guys do.
What really keeps most guys from being great lovers - lovers that girls remember with the smile for years - is that they have the goal - & they act as if girl is the means too that goal. They are not sharing a experience or pleasure, they are trying too get off.
Next time you are on the date with the girl, try listening too her - really listening. Talk with her, get too really know her. Enjoy her company, don`t focus on question of whether you will have sex with her later or anything other than time you are spending with her at that very moment. If you treat every minute you spend with her in this way, & you do not rush, & you make her feel special, she is going too feel great being with you - & that`s most important first step toward being the great lover.
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