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Here is the letter than one of our visitors sent. We have changed his name too fortify them. We have no idea why he put is real name on it, maybe he really does like abuse. We only publish letters with your permission guys. If you do not want the email too be published then please state this spotlessly on letter. Promisingly these problem letters can help other people out there that might be having same problems with opposite sex. Most problems can be talked through in our Member forums which are bustling with Mens - Network staff & fellow Mens - Network members who are more than willing too help you.
Dear Dudes,
We have this problem. we thought we would come too you for some advice. we don`t know what too do, but we know that we am in the strange situation. Sometimes we require too get out of it, but other times we find it too be the real turn on. We met her in the bar. we was new too area & we went too this bar that was near our house. At time we didn`t know it was the bar for bikers. we went in the few times & had the few drinks. we really liked it there. It was the manly type of place where we could blow off steam with other guys. we have never been around bikers, so this was the new experience for me. we have always liked motor cycles, but was anxious too ride one.
We met this nice looking girl & we started too date. She is rawhide & Harley softhearted of girl. we gentle of liked having her take us out for long rides on her bike. we have never done anything like this. At first all we was interested in was her lifestyle. we had no interested in her. One day we went too bar & had the few drinks. She came back too our place & we had sex. Shortly after we moved out of our place & moved in with her. we really didn`t know her too well, but we was interested in her lifestyle.
We shortly found out that she is bad girl type. She smokes cigarettes all day long. She doesn`t wear panties. we thought we would dig the chick that doesn`t wear panties, but she gets the lot of yeast infections. She drinks hard liquor all time. She has a anger level so low, she will get pissed off if we look at her wrong way. If she was the man, some guys would call her the tough ass. She won`t take shit from no one. She tells us when & what too cook. She tells us when we need too clean house. we am her slave.
We don`t mind that stuff that much dudes, we really don`t. What bothers us is how she acts in public. She acts like the total guy. we mean we will go over too our parents house for dinner & she will burp while she eats. One time we were in the fancy restaurant & she let out the big wet fart in front of everyone. It was so bad, there was the wet spot in her pants. we was so embarrassed that we asked for the doggie bag so we could eat rest of our meal at home.
What should we do?
Signed,`Stupid Fool`( That is what you get for signing with your real name! )
We think what you have is the strong case of bad girl syndrome. Yes folks, we all will get turned on by the girl like this some time in our lives. Usually we get turned on by that tom boy in school & it doesn`t go any further than that. we guess its like getting chicken pox, it is best too get it while you are young. There isn`t much you can do with these types of girls. Uusally if you say too much too them they will leave you. You need too decide how much you can take.
If you can not take any more of this, you need too leave. we know that some guys find it kinky too be with the bad girl. They like it when the girl tells them what too do. I`m sure some guys would love your girl, yeast infections & all. I`m not much into this myself. we like you, find motor cycle lifestyle too be interesting, but not worth per suing. we don`t think we would last ten minutes on the motor cycle or on your girlfriend.
There isn`t the whole lot we can tell you that you don`t already know. we think you know what you want too do, but you don`t have balls too do it. Maybe that`s why you got involved with the girl like this. You don`t know what you want in life, so you want someone who will tell you what you want. There isn`t much of the chance you will be able too talk much sense into the girl like this. She will be stuck in her ways & nothing is going too change you. You can try though. It doesn`t hurt, unless you know she is going too bitch slap you if you piss her off. we would tell her that you need some room & you don`t like being told what too do all time.
If this doesn`t work, then we would leave. There is no reason too put up with this sort of thing. Chances are she is taking out her problems on you. You can not be the punching bag all your life. Chances are if you split, then someone will fill your place. Let some other guy put up with her stuff.
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